There has been a lot of talk about bullying lately. But, the
whole concept of bullying and being superior has been redefined.
This is a made up story, but you will get the point.
Let’s say I have a son who becomes a skilled physician. Let’s
say he does a good job at what he does and is successful in his career. Some
would say that it’s unfair that someone gets a good, high paying job while
others remain jobless. It’s not fair that he makes more money than others. They
would say that my son is a bully and that he is oppressing people.
If you take this apart though, it really doesn’t make sense.
How would my son be bullying people around if he is skilled at something and as
a result of his skill and knowledge, he makes a lot of money?
There is a subtle belief that everything on earth is
balanced. There is an equal balance of good and bad. There is an equal balance
of pain and peace. If there is something good that happens to someone, then, to
someone else, something bad will happen. This is called, ‘Yin-Yang’. It is part
of the Eastern religions, and, sadly, it has even swept through America.
I remember listening to Greg Koukle one time, and he was
explaining how he was talking with a woman in India. The conclusion of the
conversation was that the woman actually believed that because boys in America
have a lot of toys (video games, etc.) that means boys in India will be lacking
in those things. It has to be balanced.
But this is not Biblical. The Bible explains that God causes
both blessings and difficulties to come to the righteous as well as the
unrighteous. When God blesses someone, that doesn’t mean that person is a
bully. It just means that God has blessed that person with a skill or talent,
and that person is responsible for being a good steward of what God has given
to him or her.
Anyway, anyone who is successful at their job, or by using a
skill, anyone who gets recognition and is shown appreciation for what they have
been given, is considered, by some, as a bully.
A bully takes the power away from another. A bully uses his
power to magnify himself or herself, to make him or her look important. A bully
stops others from achieving worthwhile goals for themselves.
I don’t see how a person who has a good paying job is stopping
someone else from being successful at a job. Why do we penalize someone for
doing their job and getting paid for it? How is this person’s success
oppressing another? This just doesn’t make sense.
Do you think people have bought into the Yin/Yang philosophy
in America? Or, could it just be that some are green with envy when others
succeed in life? Why is it considered wrong when a person works hard, studies,
has hands on experience, and learns a trade or skill that is used to help make
a community work? What am I missing here?
There is a principle called, ‘supply and demand’. If a
product or service is desired, then a person or business is created to supply
the need for the demand. We empower people with our wallets. We pay for things
we enjoy or can use. If someone produces something we need, we will pay for
that item or service. We are empowering the person who created the item or
service. That person is not taking advantage of others or bullying others
around with their product. (It is possible for bullying to take place when
someone has money or authority, but that is not what normally happens. That is
a whole other topic for another article. That is an issue of the heart).
That’s all I’m going to write on this for now. I’m just
tired of people making up stories and cases designed to destroy someone or a
group of people for being wealthy. Instead of spending their time being sick
with envy, they could be building their own lives and could become productive citizens.